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From: "PUBYAC: PUBlic librarians serving Young Adults and Children" <pubyac@prairienet.org>
To: "PUBYAC: PUBlic librarians serving Young Adults and Children" <pubyac@prairienet.org>
Sent: Thursday, January 29, 2004 11:01 PM
Subject: PUBYAC digest 1330

    PUBYAC Digest 1330

Topics covered in this issue include:

  1) Seeking books on father abandonment for a seven year old
by Ford-Betsy@MonroeCounty-FL.Gov
  2) Peer pressure stories
by Mary Gilbert <m.gilbert@gomail.sjcpl.lib.in.us>
  3) RE: Stumper - grandmother's soup
by "Diana Cook" <dcook@rpl.regina.sk.ca>
  4) Book Repair Supplies
by "Wanda Maxwell" <wsm@pclibrary.org>
  5) bookstores & libraries
by Paula Schaffner <paula@saline.lib.mi.us>
  6) waiting dog - librarians weigh in...
by "Sheppard, Grace" <Grace.Sheppard@ottawa.ca>

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From: Ford-Betsy@MonroeCounty-FL.Gov
To: PUBYAC@prairienet.org
Subject: Seeking books on father abandonment for a seven year old
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:28:01 CST

Hello everyone!

I have a patron looking for books for her seven year old son.  The boy's
father abandoned them when the boy was an infant and has had no contact with
them since then.  The mother has remarried and the boy has a positive
relationship with his stepfather but he is currently experiencing problems
regarding the abandonment.



I searched our catalog, A to Zoo, and Amazon using terms like abandonment,
divorce, single parent families (the last two thinking I might find
something related).  Books on divorce and single parent families aren't what
she's looking for plus she's looking for something her son can read, not an
adult book.



Any thoughts or ideas would be appreciated.  I'll post a hit.



Betsy



Betsy Ford

Children's Librarian

Monroe County Public Library

Key West, FL

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From: Mary Gilbert <m.gilbert@gomail.sjcpl.lib.in.us>
To: pubyac@prairienet.org
Subject: Peer pressure stories
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:28:15 CST

Hello, everyone:  A patron asked me today about novels for a 4th
grade girl dealing with being a "pleaser".  She makes good grades and
tries to be liked by pleasing her peers/teachers, but feels insecure.
The mother is concerned that she needs models for confidence to be
herself, rather than anticipate what others want her to say/do/be.  I
couldn't come up with a single title dealing with a girl who is a
conformer that develops a sense of self.  Considering how dominent
peer pressure is in our culture, I was surprised that I couldn't come
up with any books dealing with the issue.  Does anyone know of
stories that have to do with resisting peer (and/or  adult
expectations) pressure with an emerging sense of self?  I'm looking
for middle grade titles.  I'll post the list of responses.  Thanks!
--
Mary Gilbert
Children's Services
St. Joseph County Public Library
South Bend, IN

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From: "Diana Cook" <dcook@rpl.regina.sk.ca>
To: <cmholm@inlandlib.org>, <pubyac@prairienet.org>
Subject: RE: Stumper - grandmother's soup
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:28:28 CST

If anyone knows this, I would also like to know. Also--I am thinking of a
tale of the man who thinks his house isnoisy, and the wise woman keeps
telling him to add one more animal until the place is really noisy, and then
he takes them away and it seems peaceful in his house now. No one can seem
to remember the title of this or one of it's variants around here.

Thanks!
Diana
dcook@reginalibrary.ca

-----Original Message-----
From: Cecelia Mestas-Holm [mailto:cmholm@inlandlib.org]
Sent: Friday, January 09, 2004 1:03 AM
To: pubyac@prairienet.org
Subject: Stumper - grandmother's soup

Hi,
I am not a member of this list but I'd appreciate any help. I have a
 patron asking for a children's story they read in 1970s-1980s. It is not
Stone Soup. An Italian mother or grandmother is known for making a special
soup. One day as she starts to cook the soup, she's interrupted at intervals
by each member of her family. Each one asks that a specific ingredient be
left out for various reasons. By the time dinner arrives, the woman places a
pot of boiled water on the table because of the requests. I have checked
Children's Catalog editions available to me - 1966, 1971, 1976 and
1991.Hoping this sounds familiar to someone, and thanks for any suggestions!


 Cecelia Holm, M.S.L.I.S.
 Inland Library System
 Riverside, California
cmholm@inlandlib.org
 909.369.7994
FAX:  909.784.1158

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From: "Wanda Maxwell" <wsm@pclibrary.org>
To: "PUBYAC" <pubyac@prairienet.org>
Subject: Book Repair Supplies
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:28:40 CST

We are no longer using the following items to repair books.  If you are =
interested in purchasing any of them at a low low rate, please contact =
me at wsm@pclibrary.org.  The items are:  10 packages of CD protective =
labels (5498); 2 cans of Spraylon Clear Plastic Spray; 1" single =
stitched tape (unopened); 2" single stitched tape.  The rest are double =
stitched tape: 2 1/2" pkg opened; 2 1/4" pkg not opened; 7/8" pkg not =
opened; 3/4" pkg not opened; 3/4" pkg opened; 1 3/8" pkg not opened; 1 =
1/2" pkg opened; 5/8" pkg opened; 3/4" pkg not opened; 1 5/8" pkg not =
opened; 3 -  7/8" pkg opened; 2 -  7/8" pkg not opened; 1 3/8" pkg not =
opened; 7/8" pkg opened; 1 1/2" pkg opened; 1" pkg opened; 5/8" not =
opened; 3/8" pkg opened; 1/2" pkg opened; 1/4" pkg not opened.  These =
were purchased from Gaylord and Demco.  Some of the packages opened have =
not been used.  Some are only a parcel package.  I just hate to discard =
these if someone can use them.  I would sell them or even give some of =
them away.  Thanks Wanda Putnam County Library Cookeville Tn =
wsm@pclibrary.org

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From: Paula Schaffner <paula@saline.lib.mi.us>
To: pubyac@prairienet.org
Subject: bookstores & libraries
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:28:54 CST

I practice subversive librarianship in bookstores.  Here's how it works:
every other weekend or so, go to a local bookstore. Look at the shiny new
books. When you overhear a perplexed customer talking to another perplexed
customer (because no sales person is in sight, OR the sales person doesn't
know the answer), casually say, "Excuse me, but I just saw that book over
there."  After they find the item, mention one or two other books that
might also be appropriate.  When the no longer perplexed customers exclaim
over your extensive knowledge, admit that you are, in fact, a librarian.
Then recommend at least two other possible books and say, "They are out of
print, but I know they're available at the library."  If the person says,
"No, I already looked," you can mention ILL.  This is what we have that
bookstores can never offer: the truly deep backlist and OURSELVES.

I frequently run into Saline District Library patrons in the bookstores.
We're always glad to see each other and always end up discussing books and
(of course) being overheard by other bookstore wanderers. Nine times out of
ten, someone else will join the conversation and my patrons ALWAYS identify
me as "our librarian."  Good publicity for my library and for librarians
(even on our days off, we go where needed!). 

As for bookstore storytimes--they make us look good.  Because we don't have
to sell anything, we can concentrate on providing the best possible
age-appropriate experience for each child in attendance.  We can enforce
the "No unattended children" policies.  We can avoid dangerously large
groups. We can expect good behavior.  And we can send people away with bags
of books and movies and music FOR FREE.  What a deal!

That said, we DO need to make our collections attractive and our libraries
inviting, so people will realize how wonderful we are.

Paula Schaffner
Saline (MI) District Library
paula@saline.lib.mi.us

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From: "Sheppard, Grace" <Grace.Sheppard@ottawa.ca>
To: "'PUBYAC@prairienet.org'" <PUBYAC@prairienet.org>
Subject: waiting dog - librarians weigh in...
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Date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 19:29:09 CST

Hello everyone,

Here are the responses I received from Pubyac members about the
controversial "The Waiting Dog" by Carolyn Beck.  Thanks to all who sent
their opinions.

Grace Sheppard, Children's Librarian
Cumberland Branch, Ottawa Public Library
Grace.Sheppard@ottawa.ca

*****

Hi Grace,
I thought it was funny; but I too received staff complaints about the
graphic content. I'm not sure that I would order it again; there hasn't been
much interest, but often those "picture books for all readers" just don't
circulate. I still don't find it offensive (and my dogs enjoyed it).
Hope this helped.
Laurie Harrison
Riverhead (NY) FPL

*****

Hi Grace, We found it very graphic also.  We decided to put it in our Junior
Fiction collection.  Can you let me know what your overall response was on
this book?  Thanks

Janet Coulas
Children's Services Librarian
jcoulas@post.library.on.ca

Petawawa Public Library
16 Civic Centre Rd.
Petawawa, ON  K8H 3H5

*****

I hated this book, and I'm Canadian and a fan of her "Elliot" books.  See my
review on Amazon.  I sent my copy back to the publisher and asked for a
refund!!

Inge Saczkowski

*****

Hi, Grace - Here are the letter and my review.  I found other reviews at CM
(<http://www.umanitoba.ca/outreach/cm/vol10/no1/thewaitingdog.html>); Globe
and Mail Nov. 15/03, p. D19; Toronto Star Nov. 9/03; Publishers Weekly Sept.
29/03, p. 65.

The complaints here were that it was gross, violent and not appropriate for
young children.

Hope this helps, Andrea
Andrea Gordon
Manager, Children's & Youth Services
Burlington Public Library
2331 New Street
Burlington, Ontario
L7R 1J4
gordona@bpl.on.ca <mailto:gordona@bpl.on.ca>

*****

Where did it get a positive review?  Everything I read about it was
negative...  as was my own reaction.  I can see nothing worthwhile in a
story about a dog fantasizing about eating a mailman, in *graphic* detail.
Yes, there were some humorous turns of phrase.  Yes, the illustrator is
quite talented.  But overall, I thought the entire book - story and art -
was SICK.  In my opinion, the author, illustrator, and publisher should be
ashamed of themselves for trying to pass this off as humor. I will not be
adding this to our collection unless a large number of patrons request it
and our review board overrules my decision.  If that's censorship, so be it.

Becky Ann Smith
Youth Services Librarian
Logan Library
Logan, UT
bsmith@loganutah.org <mailto:bsmith@loganutah.org>

*****

I have seen this book and really was turned off by it. I don't do the
ordering at our branch, so I'm just speaking personally, but I didn't
like it at all.

The book is very graphic and the gore in it doesn't seem to serve any
purpose except to be gratuitous. On one page in particular, you see the
mailman's severed hand and there is wood under his nails, mirroring the
scrapes on the door. It's really over the edge gross. There are other
pages where organs are just laying around, or in the dog's mouth.

I know other librarians who really thought it was hilarious, but I
don't think it serves any purpose and I don't think it is even very well
written.

Hope this opinion helps!

- Jennifer

Allen County Public Library
Dupont Branch Childrens Librarian  I
jnewton@acpl.lib.in.us
(260)421-1315 (phone)
www.acpl.lib.in.us

*****

Grace,

If I'm remembering this book correctly, it has a dog eating a mailman or
something.  We had a chance to add it to our collection through a book
review group, but all three youth services librarians thought it was a bit
over the top.  It is gruesome and appeals more to an older sensibility that
may see the book for satire (we hope).  It seems our selector decided not to
purchase this book for her own reasons.  We never discussed this title with
her and I noticed we don't have one copy in our 27 branches.  I hope this
helps rather than hurts your case.

Cindi Carey
Lacey, Washington

*****

Grace,

We don't have the book in our system.  I looked up reviews on the BWI
website.  Publisher's Weekly and and School Library Jornal both warn about
its graphic content.  It sounds inappropriate for young children- my
opinion, without seeing the book.  SLJ recommends grades 3-5.

Linda Anderson
Nashville Public Library
laanders@bellsouth.net <mailto:laanders@bellsouth.net>

*****

It's funny that you mention this. I also got a complaint from a patron on
this book. My staff read it and told me to take a look at it. I contacted
the other branch managers in our system and had them read it. We all thought
it was very graphic and quite nauseating. I have contacted our technical
services department and they are going to take a look at it and decide what
to do. If you don't mind, could you post an update to PUBYAC on the
responses you receive concerning this book? I'm curious to see if other
libraries are receiving complaints and what they are doing about it. You can
also contact me directly if you wish.

Thanks,
Vicki

Vicki Marsh
Branch Manager
South Oldham Library
P. O. Box 365
6720 W. Hwy 146
Crestwood, KY 40014
(502)241-1108
Fax (502)241-1108
vmarsh@insightbb.com <mailto:vmarsh@insightbb.com>

*****

This is interesting because one of my co-workers just came back from a
workshop where the librarians there, too, felt it was to violent. These were
primarily preschool readers. I've used the book out in 3rd grade and the
kids loved it! My timing with the use was at Halloween and the teachers
thought it great, too. I did not consider using it with kindergarten or 1st
or even 2nd graders as I felt it might be too graphic and cause alarm. Hope
this helps.

Carol

Carol Feldberg
School Programs Associate
Fountaindale Public Library District
Bolingbrook, IL 60440
1-630-759-2102 Ext. 47
cfeldberg@fountaindale.lib.il.us <mailto:cfeldberg@fountaindale.lib.il.us>

*****

Hello, Grace

I did not purchase this book and just bounced over to Amazon to read the
reviews and remind myself why.  Both reviews posted there (PW & SLJ) warn
that it is rather grizzly and not well-suited for younger children.  The
sticker on the cover ("Do you have the guts to read this book?") is
mentioned in both reviews as a more than tongue in cheek warning.  I did not
find either of these reviews positive.  PW seemed very discouraging while
SLJ was cautionary and called the book "Additional."  There are many times
when I am willing to invest in a picture book that is intended for an older
reader even though it fits into the general formant for an "Easy" book, but
this wasn't one that seemed worth the objections I was sure would be
forthcoming.  I haven't actually had the book in hand, but your experience
appears to bear out my concerns.

Good luck,
Stephanie

Stephanie Robinson Borgman
Juvenile Specialist
Harris County Public Library
Houston, Texas
(713) 749-9000
sborgman@hcpl.net


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